Weird is wonderful. And it’s bankable too.
You know who’s weird? Astronauts. Saints. Nobel
Prize winners. Scientists. People with hobbies you’ve
never heard of or are afraid to try. People who speak
their minds. People with both problems and (gasp)
solutions. People who are (enviably) not like
you. Being weird means being noticeably different. It
means being or doing something that makes other
people stare, or laugh, applaud, or boo. And it’s
something we all need to cultivate.
Your weirdness is valuable. Here’s why:
Weird has less competition.
Weirdness, by its very definition, is a deviation from
the norm—the opposite of a commodity. Weird
makes its own markets. Weirdness makes its own
rules. Weirdness provides breathing room and
leverage.
Weird is less painful.
To fit inside the cookie cutter, you have to lob off a
part of yourself. It hurts less to just be authentic.
Stop exhausting yourself pretending to be someone
or something you’re not.
Weirdness fosters community.
Weird does not equal alone. Google anything you
like, and there’s probably a fan club in support of it.
When you admit your weird interests or hobbies or
skills, you can and will find others who understand,
empathize, and share what you thought was an
isolating trait.
Weirdness creates automatic notoriety.
Whatever is most unique about you will become your
defining trait. This is how we end up with nicknames
and calling cards. And when your calling card is
actually special, it’s easy for others to remember you.
Wouldn’t you rather be “Amy with the trapeze
company” than “Amy with a Y”?
More weirdness means more freedom.
When you’re not trying to fit in, you’re free to stand
out. Standouts, if you hadn’t noticed, command
respect and attention. Sometimes stepping out of
line means you don’t have to wait to do what you
always wanted to.
Weird calls for premium pricing.
Different isn’t always better, but better is always
different. Take advantage of the fact that most
people won’t ever dare to be deviant (even positively
deviant), and price your goods, services, and
qualities accordingly.
Weird is nontransferable.
You can’t get a degree in being weird. There’s no
official uniform for the weird (contrary to what you
learned in high school). You don’t lose your special
qualities if you lose your job. You can’t forget your
weirdness in your other coat. Weirdness—the kind
that isn’t an act—is a part of you. And while it might
be bullied into hiding or hidden in plain sight, it’s not
something you can ever truly lose.
Weirdness: it’s great for parties.
It’s not small talk when you bring up your big weird
thing. Weird done right (that is, honestly and
positively) is captivating and attractive. Weird is not
creepy: weird is what makes life less boring.
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